Eden had her first day of school today. We got her backpack ready (a birthday present from a couple months ago). I had already prepared her lunch, with an extra note to tell her how much we loved her. I sent her a silver spoon for her yogurt, and she had snacks and veggies and a peanut butter and honey sandwich besides. All was carefully tucked away inside of her special princess lunchbox that she got to pick out. She was excited. Well, excited and scared, although most of those fears were resolved on the drive over:
Eden: But I'll miss you, Mommy!Me: Yes, but it will be just like if you were going over to someone's house to play and I was coming back for you later.
Eden: What if I get hurt?Me: Well, they have a school nurse that can help you if you get hurt. And if it's really bad, they will call me and I will come to get you.
Eden: Are you really going to come back and get me? Me: Yes, I really will come and pick you up. I will be here as soon as school is over.
Eden: What about Haden? He will miss me and be sad!Me: Well, this is part of Haden growing up too, and he will learn that you will come back, and that he can do fun things while you are away. Soon he'll be going to his own school and will Have that to help him not be sad.
Those concerns resolved, she seemed alright to forge ahead in the new experience. Her teacher seems very nice, so I'm comforted there.
I was excited to come get her and hear all the news about how fabulous her first day was. But, when I picked her up, she pulled me down to whisper in my ear:
"I didn't have fun today. I don't like it here."

When I asked her why, I found out it was because "The other kids don't want to be my friend. I try and try and they don't want to play with me. They won't talk to me." Eden has the unique opportunity to be an extreme minority. So, we'll see how that goes.
She also informed me that "They already have food at school to eat. I don't have to bring a lunchbox with food in it." Turns out that she was one of two kids who brought a lunch. Two out of somewhere around 80+ kindergartners. She wants

to eat like all the other kids do. And here we had tried so hard for her to be ubernormal with her lunchbox and lunch, and cool things to trade. Guess it's not like that at this school.
Hopefully, the rest of the week will get better. I'm less optimistic, especially after reading they're expectations for kindergartners. By the end of the year, they hope that they will be able to recognize some letters and make their sounds, possibly to also list some words that start with those sounds.
As Eden is already a good reader, I'm afraid she'll be horrifically bored, and/or be more excluded by the rest of the kids for also being "too smart".
So..... we'll see.